Another pearl for you young men. Stop telling women anything but the truth. You will be greatly surprised what being honest and selfless WILL bring to your relationship. For the women. Stop believing anything but what you truthfully feel in your heart/soul/cellular level. Trust your intuition. If you have father issues get counseling, not some messed-up man/boy, who thinks dancing is stupid and video games are his best friend. Men and women;stop using food,sex,drugs,and relationships to deal with your pain. Deal with your pain by crying,talking,exercising,and any healthy activity. Take small steps. The fall is not as steep. You will fall. It is those that refuse to stay down that will succeed. Have a beautiful day.