Do not make it your vocation to engage in conversation of a negative persuasion when you lack imagination. Some find joy in confrontation, others dwell in lamentation. Misery likes company, take yourself from the equation. Here's a quick dictation - "If you have nothing nice to say, don't say anything at all." Instead... ... apply some meditation. Pacify your aggravation, you can make a bad thing good if you can implement some patience. Think... ... hesitation. That rash comment off the cuff could spread some nasty alienation. Live... ... in the positive. Spread smiles for recreation. :)