she struggles. shes on her own. no one is there to pick her up when she is knocked down. why does this happen? should it? some people say it is good for a person to be bullied. that way they can become stronger. is this true? i want to help her. i want to be there for her. but when i go to help, i get pushed away and hurt. i want to just let go. but i cant. she means to much to me. what to do? i do not know.